Appearance
While appearance is far from being the only thing that attracts women it is still extremely important. Here are some steps you can take to appear at your very best:
Short Term
1. Stay Clean and Smell Good. Make sure you are clean, your hair is fresh and well-groomed, and put on deodorant and some cologne.
2. Get a Great Haircut. See a couple of hairdressers and get some advice on which haircut would look good on you and suit your type. Be creative and find a style that goes with you.
3. Find The Kind of Facial Hair That Suits You. Yes! How would you look with a mustache, chin-beard, full beard, long sideburns, any combination thereof, or shaven plainly clean?
4. Do a quick intense workout. If you only have a little time and want to give yourself some good body language, then do a quick yet intense workout. This will vary according to your skill level, but for instance: Do as many push-ups as you can, pull ups, crunches followed by a run. Working out your muscles will give you the ‘pumped look’, improve your body language and the cardiovascular exercise will give you a healthy glow.
5. Sleep If you’re planning on going out on a date the next day, make sure to get a great night’s sleep. Earlier is better and you’ll look 1.3x better if you do (yes I just made that statistic up, but the fact is that you’ll look better)
6. Shoes, iron. People notice how ‘clean’ you are. So the best quick fix you can do is to iron your clothes so it looks “new” and make sure that your shoes are clean and polished. Women notice shoes… a lot.
Long Term
1. Develop your Sense of Fashion
This step will require some money, so if you don’t have money for clothes right now start saving up. Ask some girls that you know to come shopping with you and help you pick out clothes that look cool on you. Here are some basic rules: nothing geeky, no stuffy grey clothes, nothing that is way too big or small.
If in doubt, go shopping with a girl that has a good sense of style. Usually they’ll be happy to help out and give you good advice. Do NOT listen to the store clerks, they’ll just try to sell you everything in the store.
2. Stay in Shape
Early morning exercise will get your adrenaline pumping and make you shiny and fresh for the day, and people will take notice. Soon enough, your muscles will start to look more awesome as well. Doing it for the right reasons such as getting in shape and overall well being will help you stick with it for the long term.
3. Get feedback
One of the best things you can do is get some honest feedback. Get it from everyone you can… especially from women. Many people won’t want to hurt your feelings and will ‘sugar coat’ their answers, but if you can even get one person to give you a truthful answer, it will help you immensely.
Final Note
It is realizable and, oftentimes, very inexpensive to improve your looks quite quickly! Great looks are far from being the only thing needed to attract women but they are part of the baseline requirements. While you work on improving your character and personality, make sure you work on your appearance as well. Always remember: beauty comes from the inside out. If you feel good, then you’ll look good!
One Additional Contribution
Categories: Sticking Points
LISTEN and always make eye contact. Do NOT look at her lips while she’s speaking. She’ll intuitively know you’re thinking about sex. Look at her eyes and try to live in the moment and think of her as a friend not as someone you want to sleep with or take on a date…..just a friend. Take the pressure off and you’re more likely to be yourself!
by Annette Graves